Black Ink Photography | Montreal Boudoir Photography

I wanted to share an article with you from the Atlantic Journal. (Got to love the internet!)

It is all about self-image. A direct quote:

Only 3 percent of American women consider themselves beautiful, according to a 2004 Harvard University study, “The Real Truth About Beauty: A Global Report.” More recent surveys, commissioned by Dove, and focusing on girls 8 to 17, found youngsters are also hard on themselves. A 2007 Dove/Seventeen Magazine survey found about 4 in 10 girls and young women said when they look in the mirror, they only see their flaws.

US statistics, but I’m sure they are not far off from the Canadian numbers.

A woman is interviewed in the article whose self-image has changed because of boudoir photography. The Atlantic boudoir photographer who took her images said that she want “to help ladies find their own kind of beautiful however they can feel beautiful.” And that is really what boudoir photography is all about.

We tend to be overly critical when we look in a mirror, try on clothes, eat…

As women, and men too I’m sure, we’re blasted from a very young age of the rich, famous, thin & sometimes plastic. Images in magazines are touched, sometimes so much that people don’t look real anymore. Then there is Michael Jackson and his ill-fated quest for physical perfection.

What do you think when you look in the mirror?

I only have two wall mirrors in my apartment. Usually, I just look at them in glancing, to fix my makeup, floss my teeth (note to self: floss more often!), the usual stuff. Sometimes I look at I go, uggggg….it is a hat day. I rarely look at the mirror and go, looking good you hot thing! I do try to not criticize myself when I look in the mirror. But it can be hard. I don’t look like Julia Roberts (actress relatively close to my age). I met a woman once who didn’t even own a mirror. I think that is a bit extreme.

I am consciously trying to change my relationship with mirrors. Think “positive reinforcement”, instead of negative. Look for the good.

And to bring this back to boudoir photography:

One client I had told me that her images helped her see herself through her fiance’s eyes. We need to wipe away our preconceptions and embrace who we are. Look for the best. Let the camera be your positive mirror.

I was very excited to take A’s photos last week at her gorgeous home in the West Island. When she contacted me, she told me that she has a great body (after four kids!) and wanted to remember it in photos. What a great attitude! And what a great role model for her own kids. I hope I can share one of her images with you soon!

And my last post was image-less, so I can’t leave this one with a photo. This is a photo of V, who is a local musician and artist. It was an artsy photo session and we had so much fun. The general theme was around her beautiful bath. I hope this makes you smile.

Warning: This post may make you spend money. I went out and bought some Vitamin E.

Looking Best on Your Wedding Day. Looking Best Anyday.

I recently became a fan of Sylva K on Facebook and I’m so happy I did. The first post I read from her was all about looking good on your wedding day, something that you need to start thinking about months before the actual day. But the same applies if you are just a guest, or having a portrait/boudoir photo session. And really, who doesn’t want to look their best?

Check out her blog for great hints on looking good on your wedding (and other) day. And think about fanning her on Facebook so you can get access to her wonderful hints, tips and reviews.

(And of course I recommend “fanning” Black Ink Photography on Facebook as well. )

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I got to take {T}’s photo in December as a special surprise holiday present for her fiance. I wasn’t there when he opened the presents, but he made *my* day by sending me updates via email. Thanks {P}! Check it out…

Images set to music, which means if you have music running on your computer, you might want to turn it off. Or it you don’t like music, you might want to mute.

{T} also actively promotes the bone marrow registry throughout Montreal and the rest of the world. The chance of finding the right match can be very high, and the number of people registered is still far too low. You can help. Register today. To register, you provide a sample either through a swab or a blood test (depends on where you live). If you are a match, and the timing isn’t right for you, you can refuse. But if you accept, and give a donation that may save a life, the pain is minimal. The rumors about the pain levels are just rumors.

For more information and to find a registry, visit (link will take you off this site):
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